How Deep Is Your Love?

 

Disclaimer: This article is my own experience, as a woman having penis/vaginal sexual intercourse — not all positions may feel the same for other people.

In a society where orgasm and finishing is placed on males, it can seem almost impossible to find female positive things attributed towards sex. Social media and outspoken people have started to make an impact, changing the game of sex for the better — making it known that females not only orgasm too, but deserve to — as a female you deserve to have the time and effort put towards your orgasm. 

My boyfriend and I started having sex two months after we began dating, it was an entirely new world for me, but one I was so ready to explore and have fun with. At the time, in high school, sex wasn’t about orgasming or finding what made us cum together, it was about doing it a lot and everywhere in any position we could try. Later down the road, after 8 years of being together and having sex we have definitely discovered each other’s roadmaps and added some shortcuts along the way. 

With much experimentation, patience, and communication we have figured out our favorite and go to positions to get it on, get wet, and get cumming. I can only hope these positions bring as much pleasure to you as they did to me.

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Twisted Like a Pretzel

How to: (positioning to be on your left side, but can be reversed to the right side) Lie on your left side while your partner kneels facing you and straddles your left leg (the one that’s down), then wrap your free leg (left) around their right side and pull them tight — let the fun begin.

Like “doggie style” but with the added extra of looking into your partner’s eyes, and even being able to kiss if you’re extra flexible. This position is great to experiment with because there is no “right” way — trying it in different angles allows you and yours to explore which is best and for what moments. I personally like being slightly sideways to make for deeper penetration and connection and allows me to touch and rub my partner — not just face away and let him do all the work.

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Like a Nun and a Pastor Sinning

How to: While laying on your back have your partner face you and lay/hover over you. Because of the simplicity of this position, there are many ways to change it up;

  • Wrap your legs behind your partner's back or waist

  • Spread your legs open like a frog

  • Blindfolds and handcuffs

The good ole fashioned missionary style, a true classic that can be made new. This position is great for any experience level because it allows for intimacy and comfort between both partners. It allows for easy insertion that the majority of the time will not cause pain or discomfort. This position was my doorway to the wonderful world of sex and was a nice welcome back to ease any discomfort after having a baby.

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Ridin’ Dirty Like a Cowgirl

How to: While your partner lies on their back, straddle them like a horse and face them. In this position you are in full control, meaning you have the reins — you can bounce or grind, whatever floats your boat.

Ways to change it up:

  • Bring your knees up, in a slightly squatted position and bounce up and down, I call this the froggy

  • Have your partner slightly angled or leaned up against a wall or headboard and have them hold you tight

A workout for the hips, but it totally pays in the end. Like doggie style, this position allows for deep and controlled penetration by you. One sure way to make sure you stay in control: handcuff your partner so they aren’t able to do anything but let you do your thang. This position, in my own case, allows for extreme vaginal and clitoral pleasure, oftentimes finishing with orgasms from both partners. A top-five for sure.

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Gettin’ Wet and Wild

How to: this involves getting really wet, and I mean like full-body wet… in the shower. While your partner stands, put one foot on the shower/tub ledge and the other foot on an opposite ledge, as to be spread standing higher than your partner. Have your partner hold you while you grab onto them or anywhere with a handhold for support and balance. Then have at it.

***Due to being in the shower, slipping could be a possibility, always be cautious, but have fun.

Showering with my boyfriend is always so intimate, fun and a great way to end a long day — adding some tasty, wet sexy time to this is a bonus. Warm water, clean bodies, and a great position for us both mean water won’t be the only wet thing in the bathroom. If living with roommates, turning the bathroom fan on makes for a great noise canceling addition.

 
Hannah Greenebatch 4